~Jesus said to Nicodemus that you can be born again?~Nicodemus said that you cannot go back into your mother and come out once more~Jesus said that you can be born again in Spirit~now just analyze this for a second~what does the Spirit have that a physical being does not?~attachment and desire~hence ridding oneself of this one starts to become no longer of the world of struggle and suffering as the wisdom that one takes knows that all is impermanent and nothing is ever owned in this world~once detachment has happened then that one can feel one's spirit~and the match of the same texture one is surrounded by also becomes that spirit within as that one know is the Universe in whole~